📍 Tuesday Newsday — Location, Location, Location

Guidance for parents supporting emerging adults in the age of AI & automation

Barry Kruse · August 25, 2026

My first job out of college landed me in Sacramento. Honestly? It was a pretty good deal. I'd grown up in the Bay Area, so I was close to home, close to the whitewater rafting and climbing that I loved, and the city was growing. I wasn't making a sacrifice. I was making a start.

But that was the first of many moves.

Over the next three decades, I relocated to Colorado, Utah, Massachusetts, and even England, then eventually back to Sacramento. None were bad places to live. Some I genuinely loved. But I'd be lying if I said I didn't sometimes wish I could have just stayed in the Bay Area.

And here's the part we don't talk about much: I've turned down good roles because I didn't want to live where they were. I've taken lesser positions because the geography was right.

Every career is a series of tradeoffs, and location is one of them.

I think about that a lot right now because I keep hearing some version of the same thing from parents:

My kid can't find anything. But they don't want to leave.

I get it. But where your kid is willing to live may be one of the biggest variables they can actually control in a difficult job market.

🧠 What's Inside

📍 The Opportunity Map Has Changed

Every year, researchers rank the best places for recent graduates. This year's results have some surprises.

ADP Research analyzed payroll data from more than 409,000 workers ages 20–29 at more than 20,000 employers, ranking 53 large U.S. metros on wages, hiring, and cost of living.

The winner?

Birmingham, Alabama.

Tampa came in second, followed by San Jose and Columbus. Raleigh, Tulsa, San Francisco, Nashville, Charlotte, and New York rounded out the top ten.

Birmingham is especially interesting. Its hiring rate reached 2.8%, while median annual wages for recent graduates jumped more than 16% in one year to $59,004. It was also more affordable than all but two of the metros ADP studied.

Tampa jumped all the way from #26 last year to #2 this year as its hiring rate rose from 2.6% to 3.4%.

That's a pretty different opportunity map from the one many college graduates have in their heads.

📌 What parents should notice: Birmingham. Tampa. Columbus. Tulsa. These aren't necessarily the cities your kid dreamed about while sitting in a college dorm.

But maybe that's the point.

A first job doesn't have to be in a forever city. Sometimes the smartest place to begin is simply the place willing to give you a beginning.

🔎 Geography Matters More in a Tight Market

This is happening against a strange backdrop.

The New York Fed reports that unemployment among recent college graduates remained around 5.6% in the second quarter of 2026, while underemployment — graduates working in jobs that typically don't require a degree — reached 42%.

Yet employers surveyed by the National Association of Colleges and Employers expect to hire 5.6% more Class of 2026 graduates than they hired from the Class of 2025.

ZipRecruiter's annual graduate survey offers another encouraging signal: the share of recent graduates who said they landed a job within three months of graduation rose from 63% to 77% year over year.

So this isn't a story about there being no jobs.

It's a story about a market in which opportunity is uneven — by industry, occupation, experience and, increasingly, geography.

And AI is making some of those differences sharper.

Stanford's Digital Economy Lab has been following employment among workers ages 22–25 in occupations with different levels of AI exposure.

Its August update found that employment among young workers in highly AI-exposed occupations now stands about 19% below where it would be if it had kept pace with their peers in less-exposed occupations. That gap was 15% in the researchers' July 2025 data.

Perhaps even more important: Stanford found that the adjustment is showing up primarily through reduced hiring of young workers, rather than increased layoffs.

That's a crucial distinction.

The door isn't necessarily closing behind young workers.

In some occupations, fewer doors are opening in the first place.

And when there are fewer openings, insisting that one of them also be in a particular city makes an already difficult search narrower still.

🌎 Widen the Map

There's another piece of data I can't get out of my head.

Gallup found that only 43% of Americans ages 15–34 said in 2025 that it was a good time to find a job where they live.

That's down 27 percentage points in just two years.

And the most pessimistic group?

Highly educated young Americans who aren't yet working full-time.

In other words, many of the young adults struggling to launch right now aren't imagining the difficulty.

But there's an important phrase buried inside Gallup's question:

"Where you live."

Maybe one response to a difficult local job market is to change the local part.

Not forever.

Just long enough to get started.

🗣 Coaching Move for Parents

This one requires some honesty from us first.

Ask yourself:

Am I holding on to a geography that's comfortable for me, or am I helping my kid consider where the opportunity actually is?

And frankly, I hope my kids won’t be that far from home when they launch, either. While I’d never want to hold them back, I will miss them! And I certainly often remember missing my friends and family when I moved away, too.

I've been on both sides of this. I've moved for roles and been glad I did. I've also said no to jobs because I didn't want to live there, and I don't regret that either.

The point isn't that every move is worth making.

It's that location should be a conscious choice, not an unconsidered default.

Try asking:

"I've been reading about where the strongest job markets are for people starting out. Some are in places neither of us would have expected. Would you be open to looking at a city you haven't considered, even just to see what's there?"

Then stop talking.

Let them explore.

You're not telling them where to live. You're helping them realize that the map may be bigger than they thought.

Every career has a first chapter.

First chapters don't have to be forever.

But they do need to start somewhere.

📚 Worth Reading

🔧 One Simple Ask

If this landed for you, forward it to one parent whose kid is searching in only one city.

Sometimes the best career advice is a zip code.

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🍾 To first chapters in unexpected places — and to the courage it takes to pack a bag,

Barry

WorkLifeFuture
Career guidance for parents helping kids ages 15–25 navigate the age of AI & automation.
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